My Rant

[taelyra]

Ok, right now I'm married. Been married 5 years. The guy I'm married to, long story, but I moved in with him the same day I met him. Dumb move I know. Married six months later. Dumber move. I know.

Anyway, turns out he's sometimes verbally abusive, and slightly emotionally abusive, but it's not working on me though :) Other people that are around him more than occasionally can see it too, and it's always directed at me. Long story short, he has a deep rooted fear of being hurt by women.

Anyway, I'm planning on moving out. Time ain't right, gotta go for surgery in a few weeks. Plus gotta get some finances saved up, not making the same mistake again. ;)

What I want to gripe about is where is a person who is a spiritual, hippie, daily medical marijuana user supposed to meet their soul mate!!!!????

C'mon, there's got to be some place we people who through the use of mj have also become hippie and spiritual to meet their soul mate/soul partner.

Is it really to much to ask to have a happiness and passion that touches the soul so deep inside that your body almost starts to tremble? I think not.

[Capt. Zigzag]

...Anyway, I'm planning on moving out. Time ain't right, gotta go for surgery in a few weeks. Plus gotta get some finances saved up, not making the same mistake again. ;) ...

Does he know you are planing on moving out? Do you work?


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[rev.clone]

i met my fiance at a Reiki meeting and she moved in the following weekend. From the second we met i couldn't take my eyes off of her. Now here we are 4 years later and we're planning a small wedding and even talking about kids. Now we had our moments and at times i thought we would never make it but we did. Sometimes we make the wrong choices in life and have to correct them. if your truly unhappy then it's time to move on. Nobody should be in a relationship when there is abuse involved no matter what kind of abuse it is. Now he does know how unhappy you are and your moving out right?? I wish you all the best and i hope you find happiness somewhere.

[Big Buddy]

My girlfriend is very understanding and supportive of my use, hold in there, if there was no one out there, there wouldn't be so many happily married and involved people on these boards. It's like anyhting else, be patient, and keep an open mind about the people you meet too, some may surprise you. Good luck, and i wish you all the best.

[Marco Renda]

Believe it or not I found my love Pixie35 online at http://www.plentyoffish.com this site is FREE and there are SINGLE members from all over North America. I never thought that it would be so easy but it was. They have all kinds of get togethers at bars and also outdoor camping get togethers.

Hope you find your soulmate

Take Care and Peace
Marco

[In The Wind]

Here I am! Here I am!

[doreen174]

i was in your shoes once and i lucked out with my hubby...............he is so easy going and helps me to deal with the ms anyway he can

the best advice i can tell u about finding someone with your same interests is to first get yourself together and like my hubby he will appear out of the woodwork so to speak

hey at least u know what u want in a relationship now so thats a start

good luck

doreen174

[taelyra]

Here I am! Here I am!

LOL. And I'm right here. Where you are I don't know. Where I am is Canada, in Ontario.

[Marco Renda]

Loads of single folks on http://www.plentyoffish.com who are located in Ontario.

Take Care and Peace
Marco

[37flthd]

I am on a similar search, Taelyra. Been looking quietly for a kind-hearted woman for years now. So far, no luck. Making a few friends along the way, but no soulmate to share my life with yet. Hang in there! My experience is that it may take me the rest of my life, which just gives me more time to build my spirit and health into something truly worthy...

[In The Wind]

LOL. And I'm right here. Where you are I don't know. Where I am is Canada, in Ontario.

pm on the way..

[Max Rockatansky]

Ok, right now I'm married. Been married 5 years. The guy I'm married to, long story, but I moved in with him the same day I met him. Dumb move I know. Married six months later. Dumber move. I know.

Anyway, turns out he's sometimes verbally abusive, and slightly emotionally abusive, but it's not working on me though :) Other people that are around him more than occasionally can see it too, and it's always directed at me. Long story short, he has a deep rooted fear of being hurt by women.

Anyway, I'm planning on moving out. Time ain't right, gotta go for surgery in a few weeks. Plus gotta get some finances saved up, not making the same mistake again. ;)

What I want to gripe about is where is a person who is a spiritual, hippie, daily medical marijuana user supposed to meet their soul mate!!!!????

C'mon, there's got to be some place we people who through the use of mj have also become hippie and spiritual to meet their soul mate/soul partner.

Is it really to much to ask to have a happiness and passion that touches the soul so deep inside that your body almost starts to tremble? I think not.


No attempt to work things out?!?!

Serious lack of commitment there......

Just my 2 cents but from what I see so far its a 2 way street and now you are gonna just add to his pain, nice...


MAD MAX

[dykster]

Believe it or not I found my love Pixie35 online at http://www.plentyoffish.com this site is FREE and there are SINGLE members from all over North America. I never thought that it would be so easy but it was. They have all kinds of get togethers at bars and also outdoor camping get togethers.

Hope you find your soulmate

Take Care and Peace
Marco
I got an internet woman also! The shopping is great on the net...lol.

topic....I wouldn't be worried about meeting someone while you are still living with this person. Have a great affair with yourself first....and then I am sure there are plenty of guys around who would love a woman that tokes! Living alone for awhile can be the best time in your life!

[dykster]

Here I am! Here I am!

See...there ya go already! I believe there are more men looking for a pot friendly gal than you know!

In The Wind...Easy boy....lol

[Storm Crow]

I go to various marijuana boards and one thread I see on all of them on a regular basis is "Where can I find a stoner girlfriend?" Stinky Attic (a nice gal, incidentally) over on Cannabis.com just hooked up with a guy from the boards. They both love growing and are REALLY hitting it off! And you got a couple of offers here! Face it, my dear, there are way more male potheads than female! You can get the "pick of the litter!" Keep looking! HE's out there!

[Pain Pal]

An abusive relationship is no good for any one.Best to lay bown the law about the abuse and see if it works.If it dosen,t work out then just moove along and find someone who will respect you and your feelings and treats you with respect.
No one has to put up with abuse.
Hope things work out for you.
Peace&Prayers
John

[ras]

So sorry to hear of your negative relationship. We all make moves that arent exactly good for us at times. Just a part of growing/learning/experiencing.
Just remember that without struggle there is no progress, we all struggle and eventually we all progress. I find that whenever I try to make things happen, regardless of what it is, I am always disapointed, however, when I just let things go, and fall into place as their meant to, I find that it never disapoints me. Without any expectations, you can get no disapointment. Just let the wind blow, the leaves turn, the flowers grow, and right along with all of that youll find your king, rather your king will find you at the precise moment he is supposed to. Please do trust me on this, I lived a long time trying to make the things that I wanted to happen, happen, and the whole time found nothing but dissapointment. The moment I stopped trying, is the moment it all fell into place, and is still falling into place at the exact moment its all supposed to;) I to would like to find a Queen with the qualities you mentioned, but I will when Im supposed to. Just as you will find your king. :D Blessings Miss. Me

[Capt. Zigzag]

The more that honesty rules our tongue, the more we benifit.

The more that integrety rules our actions, the more we benifit.

The more that patience rules our relationships, the more we benifit.

The more that maturity rules our reasoning, the more we benifit.

The more that compassion rules our decisions, the more we benifit.

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