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zardoz
12-20-2008, 03:02 AM
It is with deepest regret and a very heavy heart that I write to you this morning. My brother "John" has passed on at 23:50 hrs on the 19th of December. I find myself at a loss for words. Our dear brother "PainPal" was attended last evening and for the last three days by some of his closest family and friends. My brother John fought the good fight! It is one of the saddest days of my life. He did his level best to hold on until his son from the prairies was able to fly in to see him. I'm afraid that was beyond even this extraordinary man's abilities.

I spoke closely into my brother’s ear, knowing that technically he couldn't hear me... in my heart I KNOW he DID hear and understand me! I told him how much he will be missed by every life that he has touched. Our brother had a heart that was like none other, he brought out the very best in everyone.

I was fortunate to be together with John on his birthday a couple of years ago, I was honored to learn that he and I were going to appear live on CBC TV in Moncton on his birth date. What made this an extra special honor was the fact that this voyage was the furthest he had been from home in apparently 20 some years; we went to be on TV for a live call in show regarding Medical Marijuana. This was how strongly John felt about the cause of Medical Marijuana. Needless to say, when our one and ONLY "heckler" called in our brother John took charge of the situation and very calmly and coolly informed the caller where they were mistaken and educated them.

John is survived by a great and varied family, all of whom love him very dearly. I know that his newest addition to his fine family, his sweet little grandson made John's final month's on this mortal coil much more bearable and fulfilling. I among many others will make sure this sweet little boy knows just how great a man his Grandpa was!

My heart and soul goes out to our sister "Pickles", she more than ANY other knew John for the Kind and Great man that he was. PainPal and Pickles were the very first friends that my family and I found when we first moved here many years ago from Ontario. Our sister is surrounded by loving caring family and will be watched over by a great many Guardian Angles.

Please send your prayers and best thoughts for our fallen "Green Warrior" our friend and confidant John aka "PainPal" and his loving wife and family. He is on his way to be with his Dad right now... I expect that John just might be asking Jack were to go fishing... his Dad replying "relax, sit and talk for a while... we do have forever you know... the fish will wait".


Although we have been diminished in number by one... we are greater, each and every one of us ten fold for having known him!


I close in asking you to do me a favor, the next time you burn one… think of those that have gone before you. If you knew John… you would think of him I’m betting. He really was one in a million!


Rest Easy PainPal, zardoz has your back! Keep that surf rod and bait ready for me… when it’s my time I expect you to show where to find all them Bass! I love you brother!


zardoz

Yainderidoo
12-20-2008, 03:41 AM
Rest in peace PainPal...your pain is gone now and dear God takes care of all of us....and DO sit down for a while and talk...you've got eternity indeed.

My thoughts and prayers are with the family and friends.
Tonight I will light a BIG one...in honour of all....

Yainderidoo

Swampy
12-20-2008, 04:27 AM
Prayers and condolences going out to John Pickles and the rest of his family and friends
No more Pain Pal is definately a great loss to TY and one more good bro who finaly is pain free in the Spirit World
smiling, sitting on a chair of buds, surrounded by clouds of pot

micah
12-20-2008, 05:37 AM
My condolences to Johns wife and family and all those close to them...May God be with you all during this time of grief and give you strength in the days to come.. Know that your TY family is here for you and our thoughts and prayers go out to you..Mike

Unicorn
12-20-2008, 06:13 AM
Rest in peace Big Brother....I know you are in a good place now, keeping your Dad company.

We will meet another day...God Bless...Love ya and I'm really going to miss those comforting hugs you were so great at giving.

Sis...we are here for you...you will not be alone...hugs love ya

TwistedSister
12-20-2008, 07:02 AM
SOOO SOORY TO HEAR OF OF PAINPAL PASSING!! may you all right now take from each others strength within each other!!! knowing he is no more pain! and that he will be watching over all of you!!

Peace and prayers for all of you!!

Twisted Sister

Max Toby
12-20-2008, 07:32 AM
May God bless and keep everyone close to John. See them through this terrible time, and give them the strength to carry on. John will be missed, it is easy to see. Best wishes. Our prayers are with John and his entire family.

Peace
Max:cool:

oddjobs
12-20-2008, 08:38 AM
An Prayers for John and all who knew him Very sad oj

Marco Renda
12-20-2008, 09:11 AM
R.I.P Cousin Stella

Condolences to all of Johns family and friends.

Marco

Happyplant
12-20-2008, 11:06 AM
RIP John, hopefully the grass is greener on the otherside. My heart goes out to the friends and family. Having dealt with this many many times...I'm still at a loss for words. Hopefully the living won't suffer as you did.

Buffalo Bill
12-20-2008, 12:31 PM
May the Peace of the Lord be with him, Pickles and the rest of his family and friends....
He will be sorely missed....

groo
12-20-2008, 02:49 PM
Rest in peace, John. You will be missed.

pflover
12-20-2008, 03:16 PM
<crying> Thank you Zar for that.... I didn't know john well but nontheless he managed to touch my life with is warm and giving soul!

I am very thankful for what little interactions we have had since I met him here at TY.

You will be missed my friend!

Ally

Neal
12-20-2008, 03:23 PM
A loss to our community for sure. My deep condolences.
Neal.

zigzag1a
12-20-2008, 03:23 PM
he's allready missed. my condolences.

Kalidi
12-20-2008, 03:28 PM
:( John let your magic flow thru the earth and feel the love from the heavens.

I dont like this but it is was it is. Peace and Love to your family here and at home.

L.O.V.E.

clinton
12-20-2008, 03:56 PM
To sad for words.

clinton:(

smokinbasser
12-20-2008, 07:07 PM
Condolences to your entire family during this time. I too have trouble with the passing of friends and what to say.

74"shovelhead
12-20-2008, 08:44 PM
a heavy heart and a few moments of silence... god b with u all

wildman
12-20-2008, 11:08 PM
May GOD hold you in HIS arms and keep you warm. Death in not the end, but just the beginning of a long journey. John, you will be missed by one and all here at TY. Pickles, take comfort in the thought that John is no longer suffering and is at peace. May GOD smile upon you and your family. peace, wildman

jb247
12-20-2008, 11:56 PM
Hugs to all of Johns loved ones...it is indeed a sad day

Peace...j.b.

rev.clone
12-21-2008, 01:01 AM
A big hug from all of us at TY to his friends and family!! May he now be at piece and rest with the angels.

Diskrete
12-21-2008, 02:35 AM
RIP, Takes on a new meaning. I never thought of it as a good thing, the whole peace thing at death, but John can rest now, he can be in peace. I pray that pickles, any family a friends can find peace as well. Just know he is in a good place and we will all some day meet again.

Lot of love from the TY family.

Unicorn and Zardoz, thank you for all that you do! I know this has been hard on you being so close and all.

scrumptious
12-21-2008, 07:21 AM
Damn it - this is a very sad day indeed. John was the sweetest man, full of pearls of wisdom. I am so sorry to hear about this loss. I hope his family get through this terrible ordeal and I will be thinking of them.
S.

RatherBBurnin
12-21-2008, 10:21 AM
Rest in Peace PainPal... My thoughts are with his family, and close friends.
Cheers
RBB

Binky
12-21-2008, 01:48 PM
Our hearts go out to you and the family.

Clear Head C
12-22-2008, 10:41 AM
R.I.P. Pain Pal, you will be missed

hollowpoint
12-22-2008, 11:02 AM
thanks painpal for all the good chats we enjoyed and stories swapped. just knowing the person on the other end of the keyboard is in the same shape you are gives us a sense of community, and comfort and for that I am grateful to painpal.
to quote the rev martin luther king " painpal - you're free at last"

DrugleyDoRite
12-30-2008, 10:23 PM
This thread made me cry. :(

Poter Principle
12-30-2008, 10:34 PM
All of you who have been here longer have made me sad, at first, to hear of his passing, and also grateful that you are all here to carry on in his absence. I never had the pleasure to share some time and ideas and hopes.

This is humbling, and a bit unnerving, and inspiring.

peace

Mamahawk6
12-31-2008, 04:52 AM
Condolences to the Family. You were a kindred spirit and will be missed.

Free 2 b me
08-02-2009, 10:18 AM
Omg, I am so sorry....and it really irritates me that it's taken me this long to make this discovery. (my fault) I am so very sorry to hear this news, even now! John used to call every once in awhile, but it seemed that every time he did, I had my phone off because I was so sick from the Hep treatment. He'd always leave a msg. in his cheery sounding voice and Pickles, I am so very sorry for your loss. I realize you've had a bit of time to process this, but I'm still so very sorry and sorry I didn't know about this earlier. I just thought he'd given up on calling me for awhile. My prayers are with you D and will be. John, my brother, you will be missed and I'm so sorry I only got to hear you in messages! :(

Peace and One Love,
Free

IN8I
08-03-2009, 12:47 AM
It makes my heart sink to think that I did not know as I was taking a break from the computer due to health issues at the time and had not been in the habit of checking in often enough. May he rest in peace. My hear goes out to all his family.

Sorry Gord, that is terrible.

Take Care

-N8

Tank
08-04-2009, 04:16 AM
This is indeed a sad time for TY. We lost a good person and alot of helpful advice.
My condolences to the family members.

Unicorn
08-20-2009, 06:13 PM
Just last week we lost Pain Pal's Dear Mother...she was a wonderful lady, with compassion for the cause. I've spent many a good times and had many memorial chats with this wonderful lady.

This family has gone through 3 passings in the last year and 4 in the last 2 years...all of who I hold dear to my heart.

RIP to a growing spiritual family... Uni :(