View Full Version : skunk-mad,s dad near death.
05-07-2010, 04:50 PM
hi all me & my dad have not spoke in over 10 years but on wednesday he was found collapsed outside his flat & then rushed to hospital..when he fell he must hav hit his head so they did a mri scan of his brain to find 6 Metastatic brain tumors which are secondary tumours & 1 burst thats what made him collapse.they new there was another primary cancer somewhere which they found in one of his lungs & is the size of one lung..we,ve been given the sad news that he only has hour maybe days left with us..so i put our differences aside because at the end of the day he is still my dad & i love him greatly & ive been to see him at the hospital..he was not very responsive as he is that doped up on morphine i told him that im better now as i was a ex heroin addict & that i hope that if he could see me now he would be proud of me.when i told him this he squeezed my hand so i hope he heard me.i hope what ever time he has left that he is in no pain..if im not around for a few days this is why..
05-07-2010, 04:58 PM
my condolences to you and your family.Take care brother.
05-07-2010, 05:06 PM
My condolences to you and your family
Take Care and Peace
05-07-2010, 05:11 PM
Sorry to hear that, I'm glad you got to be with him and reconnect. Hang in there...
05-07-2010, 06:00 PM
My condolences brother, I too am glad you got to reconcile and build a relationship for the rest of his life no matter how long or short lived it may be.
05-07-2010, 06:16 PM
my condolences to you and yours
05-07-2010, 07:08 PM
I can relate to what you are going through right now, I lost my father two weeks ago.
I know your father heard you.
05-07-2010, 07:52 PM
Getting together is the best thing you could do for him and for yourself. good luck Jerry
05-07-2010, 10:35 PM
you know my friend sometimes the biggest trial bring us the biggest joy,so sad to hear,but you can hope to heal knowing he knows now you have won your big battle,and that is a miracle all itself,your t.y. family is hear and we will still be here when you come back,thanks so much for the news,bad or good its great to share,Peace to you and yours Skunk mad
he knows my friend:) ..sorry to hear about your father..peace to you and your family..
05-08-2010, 03:13 AM
May the Peace be with you....
Gary Andrew Pallister
05-08-2010, 06:30 AM
I don't know u brother,but I personally told my dad ,what a great dad he had been,how i mighta been harder on me,than he was ,hehe and i loved him,i was 54 when i told my dad,,,,,,,Your dad can hear ya man,tell him what you think,,,,all of it,,,,,he will pass in peace knowing his boy is a man.I am jus a 'ol blue collar guy who has been there,peace and Karma.Gary
05-08-2010, 11:47 AM
you and your fam is in my prayers brother! I pray for peace and rest for your family during this trying time!!
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