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buddyh
05-19-2005, 03:24 PM
Hi,
I'm here so as not to leave anyone with questions.
As some of you know, my life right now isn't very good and I've been very depressed. It's very hard for me to focus, damn it's very hard for me to make myself something to eat. For those of you who remember my bout with sleeplessness, that's over. I sleep all of the time now. I'm trying to grab myself by the scruff of the neck and pull myself out of it, but it's hard, real hard.
Most of my time is spent on the verge of tears. It's not that I'm afraid of crying, it's just that I'm also broke and don't have enough TP to both to my duty and blow my nose ( :D ).
Anyway, I've made a decision to clear out my inner house. I've been all over the map lately, wasting time and energy in trying to keep myself on the move. When I stop, I'm only confronted by things that make me sad. I only have two goals right now. To work enough to support my girls and to spend as much time with them as I can (well, I guess three goals, if you include trying to break my depression.).

I love TY. Those of you that have been here for a while, know that. I've given as freely of myself here as I could. I know that not everything I've done or said has been liked or accepted by all, but for the most part I tried to be honest and true.
I woke up from a nap this afternoon. In the last part of my dream, hashimoto (JC) was there with me. I knew it must be important because he didn't have Gege with him, and he knows how much I love that dog. I don't remember any words, if any, that were spoken, but I knew that I had to come here and at least explain.

No one has driven me from TY. I just need to give all of my energy right now to my recovery and to figuring out my future. I won't say that a few situations I've found myself in here at TY over the last 2 weeks or so haven't helped me to come to this decision, but that's more about me then it is about anyone else. I'll leave it at that.

I know that I'll be back here, after nine months of being online here for hours a day, TY is a hard habit to break. I just need to take a long break and get my shit together. I look at myself and my current situation and I am not happy with what I see. With what I feel.

I'm very fond of everyone here, granted, some more then others, but I bear no grudge towards anyone.

So for know, wish me well and if you think of me, try and make them fond thoughts as I have enough negative energy swirling around me to fill The Meadowlands.

And like I said, I'll be back and Honestly, if you see me lurking around from time to time, make no thoughts or accusations of 'Theactrics' (SP?) or 'Historionics' (Sp? Again) it's most likely that I do get lonely and most of my friends are here.

So for now, I'm jumping on the camel and wandering the Wadi's of my mind in search of the Oasis that I know is there somewhere.
Be Well.
Love,
Buddy

Oh, if anyone needs me for something:

primated@gmail.com

Buffalo Bill
05-19-2005, 03:31 PM
Thank you very much for taking the time for the explanation, buddy. It wasn't needed, but much appreciated. I know how difficult tyese types of things are! I sure hope that you are doing much better, real soon and will say an extra prayer for you. You are always in my prayers! Take care and get better soon......

Joshua
05-19-2005, 04:01 PM
Buddy,
man I hate to see you go even for a short time. you and I have had some "discussions" in the past, but we always had respect for each others views even if we didn't agree. You are a good man and I hope that somehow we can all help you get through this. I know how it is to be broke, we are in the same boat my friend and we can't plug the leaks fast enough.

I do honestly care about you, (heck, even bill ;) ) You both have earned my respect as men that talk and listen. I know sometimes my words may be a little harsher then they should, but believe me it is only passion in something I believe in.

Be well, and I hope to see you again soon,

Joshua

leroy
05-19-2005, 04:10 PM
Two things Buddyh, get well first and come back soon. Your friend. LeRoy... :D

1JoeSky_IVXX
05-19-2005, 04:15 PM
Hey Brother TCB and know we are here for you.

Unicorn
05-19-2005, 04:45 PM
Buddy...Big Hugs...take your time....and I know you will be back when you are feeling better about life...Been down the depression road myself..and I know how much fun it isn't...Take care of you...and remember your one of the family, like it or not, you will always be invited to the reunions...Take Care Bro...Healing Hugs Uni ;)

ojibman
05-19-2005, 04:51 PM
I will always always be here for you brother and you know thiss man...ojib :o

nuevogro
05-19-2005, 05:05 PM
We'll be here when your ready to come back! Take care!

Lucy
05-19-2005, 05:24 PM
we will be here for you buddy....will be thinking about you....:)

iggysplat
05-19-2005, 05:42 PM
Buddy check you e-mail bro....

Leo
05-19-2005, 08:03 PM
Buddy, wish you can get well,that's the most important and hope to see you here soon.;) take care.

Leo

pflover
05-19-2005, 08:55 PM
thanx for the explination. we'll be here when you are ready.

nancerella
05-19-2005, 09:01 PM
Take time-be well-come home- we'll be here for you as you have been for us.
Nan

coco_artist
05-19-2005, 09:24 PM
Come back soon with new jokes. I am gonna be chuckle and LMAO deprived now I'll have you know.............

micah
05-19-2005, 09:31 PM
I send you healing strength for your journey buddy..we'll be waiting for your return...micah
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hashimoto
05-19-2005, 10:46 PM
Take all the time you need bud. Gege's wasn't with us in the dream since she's in Oklahoma, a therapy dog, comforting my gals mom who recently had a stroke.
Everyone needs a boston terrier :D
Talk soon buddyh

Nardwarz
05-19-2005, 11:26 PM
Hang in there Buddy. Do what you need to do. I'm sending good vibes your way. See you when you get back and please take care.

anonymous
05-20-2005, 08:32 AM
Take all the time you need bud. Gege's wasn't with us in the dream since she's in Oklahoma, a therapy dog, comforting my gals mom who recently had a stroke.
Everyone needs a boston terrier :D
Talk soon buddyh


so true so true I have one and couldnt imagine life without her..!!

Buddyh please brother take the time you need but dont forget that your TY family needs you too..(but only when your ready ) :)

mostmoneyman
05-20-2005, 09:09 AM
sorry i dident get this up before you got that camel sadeled ,but be safe on your qwest ,and when you find your oasis my the water be a refreashing fountian of youth ,just dont go skinny dipping ok ,ahhhh hell its your oasis go skinny dipping .be well and may your ride be un-chafeing

Ayahuasca
05-20-2005, 10:30 AM
hey buddyh take all the time u needed,
Good luck in your journey and when you feel ready,
we will be here.

Peace n love
aYa

Green Medicine
05-20-2005, 04:22 PM
You have my email if you chose to use it. I won't bite!